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Jennifer Newman: Back to school can be stressful especially for parents

Going back to school might seem like a relief for parents, but getting back into the routine can be tough. Workplace psychologist Jennifer Newman offers tips for parents to help smooth out the adjustment.

With school just around the corner, some parents may be relieved, but it's still an adjustment, Newman says

students line up to get on a yellow school bus.
The back to school season is an adjustment for everyone, and it can be stressful, according to workplace psychologist Jennifer Newman. (Shutterstock)

The summer season is coming to a close, andfor parents juggling vacations, workand activities for kids, this time of year might come as a relief.

But the adjustment can still be stressful, says workplace psychologist Jennifer Newman.

Newman joined hostStephen Quinnon The Early Editionto talk about how parents can plan for what she calls one of the trickiest transitions of the year.

Stephen Quinn: It's back to school time for the kids, but how exactly does it affect parents?

Jennifer Newman:It's very distracting.Workers and kids are transitioning into a different routine all summer long its been one thing and now its going to be different. Changes are welcome, but it's still an adjustment.

Psychologically, any change requires extra work. For kids, its going to be the new grades, new friends, even maybe a new school and that's exciting and stressful.

Workersare going to notice nervous kidsand excited ones.Plusthat busy school day routine is going to be starting and that's going to add more things for people to juggle. Itputs pressure on workers at this particular time of year.

But In some ways you get the predictability of school back as opposed to trying to keep them busy over the summer?

That's the positive side of the summer finishing.Now you have a routine to follow. However, you also have kids who may nothavebeen getting up for early hours.

Workplace psychologist Jennifer Newman says going back to school is an adjustment for parents and children. (Jennifer Newman )

So reestablishing the routine is a big part of it?

A huge part of it. Children will be getting up and going to bed at scheduled times now, which is a reliefbut you haveto get them going into that routine.This whole transition is going to pressure workers to recreate routines again.

Things were more relaxed over the summer, and they're going to have to handle getting back into routine.

And all that back to school action ...how stressful is it?

It can create anxiety for workers, and anxiety for kids. We do see that, especially if there's concern for the worker about how their child's going to adjust to being back at school. Again there arequestions for workers about how they're going to deal with all these challenging demands likeadding the school calendar into your work calendar.

You need to worry about school drop-off and pickup times, lunch making every day, school supplies, clothesetc.Theseare things that mayseem small, but when you add them all together, you have an extremely stressful few weeks ahead.So you can do some pre planning to deal with the uptick in demands.

Do most employers acknowledge that this is a time of transition? Do they tend to cut people a little bit of slack and kids are going back to school?

Each householdis trying to assemble a bunch of moving parts into some kind of workable routine, and employers can assess workers in doing that, and make it explicit that they recognize that this is what's going on right now, for everybodywho has kids this time of year.

Talking to staff about what they're going to need to the run up is helpful, be proactive. Work is part of the big picture, and the employer can be a bigpart of helping workers figure out all of this stuff and help them fit it in.

Any tips for people who are putting their kids back in school and heading back to work?

Folks need to let their employers know what their needs are during this time and not just silently muddle on through.

Speak to your supervisor about what you mightneed during this time because there areother people going through the same thing.That's the other part look for ways to help each other as co-workers.

Another thing to think about is to have a family discussion about what extra-curricular activities are going to be happening, what the work schedule looks like. Talk about sharing responsibilities so that it's not just one personshouldering everything as soon as school starts.

With files from CBC'sThe Early Edition