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Vancouver playwright draws on experience of parents' dementia diagnosis in new stage production

A new play detailing the experience of a couple expecting their first child, who also learnof their parents' dementia diagnosis, premieres in Vancouver on Jan. 6.

Instantaneous Blue premieres Jan. 6 at Granville Islands Waterfront Theatre

A young man and an older woman sit on a couch and appear to be having a difficult conversation.
Aaron Craven's Instantaneous Blue centres around a middle-aged couple who are about to have a child, even as the husband's parents are sliding into cognitive decline. (Shimon Photo)

In 2016, both of Aaron Craven's parents were diagnosed with dementia. His father, Don, had vascular dementia, and his mother, Peggy, had Alzheimer's.

So, he became a caregiver to them.

He was also a new father, trying to manage his busy film and television career.

It was a lot.

Now, he's written a play about his experience, hoping to connect with others who have experienced something similar.

An older couple, a younger couple and a police officer stand on a stage while what appears to be an emotional conversation plays out.
Aaron Craven said that while the play focuses on dementia, it's written for anyone with aging parents. (Shimon Photo)

Instantaneous Blue premieres Jan. 6 at the Waterfront Theatre on Vancouver's Granville Island, where it will run until Jan. 22.

It follows a young couple, Ed and Sara, who are about to have a child when Ed's parents simultaneously experience cognitive decline.

"I wanted to use my own experience to tell as truthful stories as I could about what it's like to be in that pressure cooker," Craven said.

"The play's a love letter to my parents, but it's also a story for anybody that is living in this experience."

According to the Alzheimer Society of Canada, 15 people are diagnosed with dementia every hour in Canada. The number of Canadians living with the condition will triple by 2050, the society says.

The term dementia describes a general group of brain disorders that are progressive, degenerative and, ultimately, terminal.

Symptoms can include memory loss, impaired judgment, difficulty problem-solving and a change in behaviour, mood and personality.

According to the society, dementia typically affects people over 65, but people in their 40s and 50s can also be diagnosed.

However, Craven said Instantaneous Blue is not just for people who have a parent that has been diagnosed with dementiabut for anyone who has a family.

"The loss of our parents is a universal theme," Craven said. "We're never ready for it."

An older couple embrace while sitting on a couch.
Instantaneous Blue is semi-autobiographical in that playwright Aaron Craven's parents were both diagnosed with dementia at the same time. (Shimon Photo)

He said he wrote the play not for catharsisbut to gain a better understanding of his own experience.

"There's something about getting your experience out on paper," he said.

But watching the actors play out something so personal has been emotional.

"They're taking the words on the page, and I'm watching moments where I feel like I'm right back, reliving that moment in my life."

"It hasn't just been challenging for me there are cast members and crew members who have lived experience with this that are also sitting in the room. We spent a few bucks on Kleenex."

While he's tried to inject humour into the play, he said anyone planning to attend should understand how triggering and emotional it really is.

"There's really no suitable trigger warning for somebody watching and maybe imprinting part of their own life on it."


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With files from The Early Edition