'It's heartbreaking': Ministry pauses visits between foster kids and family during pandemic

The Ministry of Children and Family Development is suspending visits between children and youth in care and their biological family members, in an effort to stopthe spread of the coronavirus.

It's a move that one advocate calls hard but necessary.

It's heartbreaking," saidJennifer Charlesworth,British Columbia's representative for children and youth.

While sheunderstands that families and kidsbenefitfrom ongoing connection and are suffering without it, she also seesthat the pandemic has created a challenge.

"The recommendations from the provincial health office around physical distancing ... havebrought them to this place," Charlesworth said.

For its part, MCFD says thedecision to temporarily pause in-person visits between children and youth in care and family was made by the provincial director of child welfare under that office's legal authority.

In a statement to CBC, the ministrysaid it is supporting virtual visits through Skype and by telephone and that exceptions can be made for special circumstances.

Theministry says the measures arebased on the latest recommendations from the provincial health oficer.

Drop in abusecalls

Charlesworth fears that the crisis could bring more violence into the homes of vulnerable children, since adultsare stressed, kids are at home all day, some parents have lost jobsand are facing a very uncertain future.

However, in comparison to last year duringthe same time period, the number of calls to MCFD to report abuse has dropped somewhat.FromMarch 3to March 17, 2019, there were 16,826 protection calls and this year, in the same weeks,there were 16,342 calls.

She and other advocates also worry about youth in care being isolated since many have limited family support, and now do not have the supportof school or regular in-person visits with their youth workers.

"You've got a heightened vulnerability now that you've got a pandemic," Charlesworth said.

Soraya Bellou, a former youth in care and now youth advocate with Fostering Change, worried that the needs of youth in care and those who have '"aged out" meaning those who have reached 19 and are no longer eligible for certain government supports would be swept aside during the crisis.

"They weren't sure if they were going to be aging out and kicked out ontothe streets during the pandemic, if they were going to be essentially left for dead, " Bellou said.

Help from province

In orderto get support from their guardian, the government, youth in care living on their own need to prove they are in contact with youth workers, are going to therapy, have workand going to school, all of which hasbeen stripped away since the pandemic hit B.C.

Fostering Change, petitioned the B.C. government to step in to support youth in care and those aging out.

This week it did.

The province announced it wouldextendsupportsto help youth in care during the pandemic. In astatement,MCFD saidyouth in care will not age out of services during the COVID-19 crisisand those who have recently aged out will get extra assistance.

"We have to step up urgently to support those young people during these times, because there is so much greater risk for homelessness, substance use problems and overdosesand exploitation," Charlesworth said.

Jenniferalso wants assurances that youth who may be exposed to the virusare getting the care they need and have a place to go if they do get sick.

"Itmatters every day regardless of whether the crisis happened or not, that we support these young people, butman it really, really matters now."