Vancouver couple's international adoption stalled by COVID-19 processing delays

He isn't officially a dad.

Still, Gary Lam finds ways to be an involved parent.

He knows where hisadopted child will sleep (upstairs), what he will play with (Cookie Monster, Sand Truck), and even what he will be named (Elliot).

The onlything Lam, 42,doesn't know?When or even if hischild will come to Canada.

"You form an attachment to that child, even if you've never met them before,"said Lam "We just want toget him home."

The assistant film editor and his wife, Mariette Baynton, have been trying to adopt a child from South Korea since late last year.

In March, they were placed with a 16-month-old boy; they even got to see his picture.

Now, though, the couple says federal government delays, attributed to COVID-19, have threatened to upend their application in its final stages, potentially preventing them from adopting theboy who is ready and waiting.

They, and their adoption provider, Sunrise Family Services Society, also worry South Korea couldput Canadian adoptions on hold untilfurther notice, if it appears the federal governmentis unable to processapplications.

"Our biggest fear is that,if things don't open up, at some point [South]Korea is gonna have to move on to another family or maybe another country," said Lam.

"It's very scary."

File number needed

On March 20, asbusinesses and Canadian government offices shutteredamidst risingCOVID-19 cases, the couple applied for permanent resident statusfor what was then their unknown child.

They claim their submissionwas signed and received by the Immigration, Refugees and Citizenship Canada (IRCC) office in Sydney, N.S.,on March 23.

But while their B.C-basedadoption service paired them with the boy, whose detailscannot be shared due to privacyconcerns,weeks went by without aword from the IRCC.

The couple says the department simply needsto open their package, and assign them a file number, so they can proceed with their application.

"Generally, it takes about two months to get a response from the IRCC," said Lam.

"About a month in, we hadn't heard anything."

Office not processing applications

Calls to the department yielded few answers.

The couple says one service representative told them the IRCC was opening packages backdated from mid-March;another told themmid-February.

A third representative allegedlytold them they needed to resubmit the entire thing.

InJuly, after months of back and forth with still no official record of their package, their adoption agency informed them that IRCC's Sydney office had been closed for months.

"Four phone calls, three web form applications," said Lam. "No one told us the office was closed and not opening applications."

Immigration Canada did not respond toCBC's request for comment in time for this story's deadline.

Submission deadline set to pass

Adoption agencies, meanwhile,say uncertainty around the backlog could force countries to abandon Canadian applications all together, as best practice dictates children available for intercountry adoption be placed with adoptive families as soon as possible.

"If there is a long delay with immigration, that means a child will remain in care for a significant period of time" saidDelia Ramsbotham, managing director of Sunrise Family Services Society.

"It also may not align with the legal requirements in the country of origin."

Ramsbothamsays Sunrise has asked IRCC to make an exception for high priority cases, such as finding a way to verify signatures and identities without relying on physical documents.

With South Korea only fieldingadoption submissions every quarter, meanwhile, Lam and Bayntonsaytheir dream of parenthood has been pushed back to at least September assuming their prospective son is still available.

"Employers have had to adapt, and I don't think the IRCC is showing they're adapting," said Lam.

"I feel like if I can get a haircut they can reopen their mail room."