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12-year-old's friends didn't celebrate after he came out as gay. So a park full of strangers did

A crowd full of strangers filled a northwest Calgary park on Saturday to celebrate aboy's rainbow-themed birthday.

'It's outrageously amazing that this little kid, even with all this adversity, can still be out here'

Surprise birthday party shows gay youth he's not alone.

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Brody Neville lost friends after he came out, so his mom asked others to show support for her 12-year-old son. The response was overwhelming.

A crowd full of strangers filled a northwest Calgary parkto celebrate aboy's rainbow-themed birthday during Pride Week.

Leah O'Donnell says when her son Brody Nevillecame out as gay this spring, the 12-year-old lost many of his friends.

That made the prospect of celebrating his birthday this yeara sad one.

"I was asking him what he wanted to do for his birthday and he was in tears and said since he came out as gay he lost all his friends, so he didn't even have people who could come," O'Donnell said.

So, she put a call out to the community to show him love,posting about his situation on Facebook. And turn out they did.

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Dozens of friends, family, strangers and yes,some drag performers strutting to Born This Way filled the park near Ranchlands Community Centre on Saturday.

When Neville arrived in the park, he initially thought it was an unusually large crowd waiting for the ice cream truck. When he realized he was the guest of honour, he wrappedhis mom into a giant hug.

"Thank you everybody for this, this is the best day of my life," a grinningNeville told the crowd.

Drag performers put on a show and presents were exchanged during the celebration. (Terri Trembath/CBC)

O'Donnell said it was an opportunity to show her son that there's a supportive community waiting for him outside of the schoolyard bullies.

"I just wanted him to feel support," she said.

Drag queenAvanna Kedvracame out at 19. She said she can't imagine the bravery it tookfor Neville to speak his truth.

"It's kind of ridiculous that in 2021 a 12-year-old can't be who they are it's a very sad reality in this day and age," she said."[But] it's outrageously amazing that this little kid, even with all this adversity, can still be out here and feeling joy."

Jessica Tailfeatherssaid seeing Saturday's turnout was inspiring.

"Showing up here today and seeing how many people in solidarity love him it brought my faith back in humanity during such a tumultuous time in society."

Neville said the crowd was a lot to process.

"That's the greatest present of all, support and people in it together with you," he said.

With files from Terri Trembath