Threats from the Taliban forced family to flee

#yycRefugee is aCBC Calgary onlineproject thatcaptures the stories of people who fled danger and found a home inCalgary.Their stories can be both harrowing and uplifting. Their ordeals can also helpshed light on the refugee experience.

Victoria's story

Victoria Ayaneeremembers justhow excitedher sons were whenthe familyarrived in Canada.

"Mom, we are safe now, we are in Canada," she recalls her eldest sontellingher atthe airport. "We can go outside, we can go to school, we can play with other people."

"I hugged him and told him, yes my son, you can go to school now and play with other children."

Victoria, her husband Naseer and their four young sons arrived in Canada in June,2013. They had fledAfghanistan via Pakistan as refugees.

Targeted by the Taliban

The trouble started for the family in 2009.

Naseerwas an employee at the United States embassy in Kabul. He worked as an intermediary with the Afghan government.

Naseer's work drew the attention of the Taliban. Though the Taliban was no longer in control of the country they were still a formidable presence in Afghanistan.

"They said they would punish him because of his support, work and association with the infidels and foreigners, particularly with Americans."

Victoria Ayanee explains why her family fled

9 years ago

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Calgary refugee Victoria Ayanee fled Afghanistan. She tells us why her family made the decision.

Naseer's job often took him out into rural areas. On one suchtrip to an allegedlysafe province,he was attacked in the middle of night. He managed to escape.

Soon after camethreateningphonecalls saying Naseerwouldbe killed by the Taliban or al-Qaeda members. They also saw suspicious vehicles outside their home. Strangers would showup at relatives' homes demanding to know Naseer'swhereabouts.

The ongoing threats eventually became too much. Victoria and Naseer decided to take their sons and leave Afghanistan.

"It is too hard to forget that situation,"says Victoria.

Safehouse in Pakistan

With the help of the United Nations'refugee agency, the family moved toa safehousein Islamabad,Pakistan. They stayedthere for two years in what Victoria describes as difficultconditions.

Thehouse had one room, no electricity or clean water. They were not even allowed to leave the property.

"We had a kitchen in that room, storage in that room, living room, bedroom, everything in that small room. No play in the yard. Outside, nothing."

Victoria was also pregnant with their youngest at the time. She says being stuck inside withthe stiflingheatwas almost unbearable.

Victoria Ayanee on husband's support

9 years ago

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Victoria Ayanee recalls how she and her husband supported each other while living in difficult conditions in a safe house in Islamabad, Pakistan.

Victoria says lifein thesafehousewas also hard on her young sons.

"My second son was scared, so scared." says Victoria.

She recalls the boy asking 'What should we do if someone killed my Dad, or someone killed you. What should we do?' These kinds of questions all the time."

As soon as they arrived in Pakistan, Victoria and Naseerapplied for refugee status in Canada.

They waited nine months before their first interview. Then came the medical tests. But eventually, their application was accepted.

"When we were toldthat your case had been approvedfor Canada, we were so happy thatI cannot explain!"

Arrived in Calgary just before the flood

When they arrived in June of2013, Victoria says the family had nothing. They were housedat a shelter for 19 days just as floodwaters hit Calgary.

Despite the civicemergency, Victoria says Calgarianswere there tohelp her and her family find a place to live.The federal government alsoprovided financial supportfor one year.

Victoria barely spoke English at the time so she immediately enrolled in language classes.

Three years later, Victorianow has a good command of the language.Naseerhasa full time job. The family rents the main floor of ahouse in northeastCalgary.

The couple's four boys now range in age from fourto 12 yearsold. Victoria says she isamazed how well they've adapted considering what they went through before coming toCalgary.

Victoria Ayanee on CCIS help

9 years ago

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Victoria Ayanee talks about the support her family received from the Calgary Catholic Immigration Society.

"My kids are doing great in school. My youngest one he just turned four. He's completely talking in English. My son doesn't understand Dari anymore already," says Victoria. "I'm continuing my language classes."

"It's cold here but that's okay. At least we are safe. Cold and warm does not matter for us. At least we are living safe in this country."

Anxiety for those left behind

One thing that continues to worry Victoria is the fate of family members back in her home country.

She says the Talibanwilltryto intimidate or hurt relativesof those they have targeted.

Victoria remainsin constant contact withher family.

"Some of them are still in Afghanistan. Some have left. They are OK. But [it's]not safe."

"If one person is a target, then nobody is safe in that family."

Will apply for citizenship

Victoria Ayanee and her family now havelanded immigrant status in Canada.

In a year from now, they canapply for citizenship something they very much intend to do.

Victoria and Naseer would liketo make Calgary their permanent home.

"I really appreciate it from the Canadian taxpayer and the Canadian government that gave us this opportunity to live in a safe country with all my kids".

Victoria Ayanee says thanks

9 years ago

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Calgary's Victoria Ayanee expresses her thanks to Canada for taking in her family as refugees.