Matchmaker helps Middle Eastern and South Asian Calgarians find love
Social activist Saima Jamal says she accidentally inherited the hobby from her mom
A social activist and self-proclaimed "social butterfly" has become an informal matchmaker for Calgariansfrom different religious and cultural backgrounds.
Saima Jamal says it's a "hobby" that she just fell into.
"I might have just inherited accidentally from my mom who kind of inherited accidentally from her mom," said Saima Jamal, co-founder of the Syrian Refugee Support Group Calgary.
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Through her social circles, Jamal says she often meets people looking for love who have "hit a wall."
Most of the people who contact her are from Calgary'sMiddle Eastern andSouth Asian communities and practice Hinduism or Islam.
"For a large number of Muslims, you cannot just go to a pub or a bar and meet your partner there. You cannot just go dating without, like, chaperones," she said.
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While many of her potential candidates are longtime Calgarians,Jamal says she hasalso been approached byseveralIraqirefugees.
"They've been here six months say, and they're lonely and they don't know how to navigate the norms. Many of them don't even speak the language, so they need help."
Jamal willposta couple lines on her Facebook page about the potential candidate, such astheir age, religion andcultural background.
Those interestedprivate message her and ifshe thinks they're a good match, she'll arrange for the two to meet.
Jamalsaid there are online dating sites for Muslims, but they'reexpensive and her services are free.
"When you do this sort of work you do it because maybe because you love humanity, maybe because it gives you a high But it's also a religious obligation. It gives you rewards in your afterlife."
WhileJamal hasconnected "dozens" of people over the years, only one couple hasactuallytiedthe knot.