Human trafficking survivor lured by gifts, fake affection

Human trafficking survivor Caroline Pugh-Robertsof London, Ont., wants to tell her story withthe hope of preventing young women from experiencing the nightmare she lived.

"What they [the predators] do is something called 'love bombarding'," explainedPugh-Roberts. "They tend to shower the girl with gifts, designer clothes, nails, make-up, jewellery, take the girls out for meals and get the girls to fall in love with them."

Often the girls are young, vulnerable and come from a difficult family background. Pugh-Robertswas 35 and at a vulnerable stage in her life. Hermother, husband and two friends had all died within six months of each other.

She said she loved him. But the 'love bombarding'turned into commands to work and help support what he described as "the family."

That support meant being forced to work as a stripper in various clubs along the 401 highway corridor in southwestern Ontario. Sometimes, she made extramoney from prostitution. He kept all of the money she made over the eightyears she was with him.

The escape

Eventually, she had enough and escaped. What she thought would be easy to do ended up taking two years. She couldn't leave Londonbecause she didn't know where to go and had no money.

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She ran toa woman's abuse shelter, but he found her the same day. Hetossed her clothes at the building and shouted forher to come out. The shelter'sworkers told her she could no longer stay,because she was endangering the life of others there.

Workers took herto another shelter, where she became ill andended up in the hospital. When discharged, she could not move back to thatshelter,she told CBC, because that shelter had a rule that peoplewho remainedaway from thatshelter for two nights wereevicted.

With the last quarter in her pocket, the only person she could call was her abuser. Soshe returned to him.

But she alsoreturned to her previous life.

Pugh-Roberts made herfinal escape by seeking help from the Salvation Army, which found a shelter for her. She stayed for four months before finding an apartment.

Road to recovery

When she was in a safe place, she decided she would turn her anger into something good.

Pugh-Roberts entered counselling and received help for sevenyears. Now, when she is not speaking to high school students or helping other women escape from from trafficking, she's at school,entering herfinal yearstudying social services.

If someone truly loves you, they will never, never put you in danger or ask you to do something that is against your morals.- Caroline Pugh-Roberts

"Ideally I would like to work in a safe house for women trying to leave the sex industry," said Pugh-Roberts.

"I have my wits back about me and through education, I have seen how it happened. And through introspection I've recognized why it happened and how I managed to fall prey."

But she saidmany young women don't have the maturity to understand that when someone you've only known a short time is throwing money at you and telling you that you're beautiful, there's a good chance it's not sincere. Their goal is to make you their property and have you make money for them, she warns.

"When I go into the high schools, I end my speech by saying, if someone truly loves you, they will never, never put you in danger or ask you to do something that is against your morals, your values,and makes you feel uncomfortable. If this situation arises, run."