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Manitoba family devastated after being asked to dig up father following burial plot mix-up

A Manitoba family is heartbroken after being asked to exhume their loved ones body after he was mistakenly buried in the wrong cemetery plot earlier this month.

Dan Griffith was buried Jan. 4, but family later told plot had already been sold

Dan Griffith's body was buried in the cemetery in Deloraine, Man., on Jan. 4, but his family has now been told the plot belongs to another family. They've been asked to have his body exhumed and relocated. (Submitted by Courtney Hainsworth)

A Manitoba family is heartbroken after being asked to exhume their loved one's bodybecausehe was mistakenly buried in a previously sold cemetery plot earlier this month.

"It's just reopening the wounds that were just starting to close," said Angela Griffith, whose 62-year-old father, Dan Griffith, died in his home in Deloraine about 250 kilometres southwest of Winnipeg on Christmas Day.

The family held a small graveside burial on Jan. 4, Griffith said. They couldn't have a full funeral because of pandemic restrictions.

Ten days later, the Griffiths were notified by the Municipality of Deloraine-Winchester that the plot their dad was buried inwas sold to them by mistake, and that it,along with two adjacent plots, had previously been sold.

Griffith said she was told the family that had originally bought the plots was asked to pickanother area, but they refused and wanted Dan's bodydug up and relocated instead.The municipality asked the Griffith family to exhume Dan's body.

Dan Griffith 'would do anything for anybody, and if anyone deserves to be resting in peace it's him,' said his daughter, Angela Griffith. (Submitted by Angela Griffith)

Murray Combs's mother bought four plots, including the one where Dan Griffith is now buried, in 2006. Combs's parents are buried in one,and the three remaining plots are for him and his two brothers.

"The burial that took place recently is in the very first plot beside my mom and dad, and there's really no more room to put the other three," said Combs.

"It was my mother's wishes, so either we go against my mother's wishes or we don't, I guess."

Combs described the mix-up as unfortunateand something that never should have happened. He said his family's arrangements were made 14 years ago.

"I certainly don't blame the other family a bit. It's not their fault either. Apparently they have a legal document to the same piece of ground," he said.

There are no easy solutions for either family, he acknowledges.

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Dan Griffith's body was buried in the cemetery in Deloraine, Man., on Jan. 4, but his family has now been told the plot belongs to another family. They've been asked to have his body exhumed and relocated.

"What do we do? Do we dig up my mom and dad's plot, too? Is that what they expect?" he said."It's a terrible mistake, but mistakes get made and somebody has to be responsible."

He said he hasn'theard anything more from the municipality on possible solutions.

While Griffith's arrangements were made through a local funeral home, the Municipality of Deloraine-Winchester is responsible for running the cemetery and selling the plots.

CBC reached out to various municipal officialsfor comment but did not receive a response.

Told mapping errorto blame

Griffith said she was only told that a mapping error led to the mistake.

"I'm still trying to wrap my head around how such a big mistake happens," said Griffith.

Cemetery staff offered to pay for a new plot and cover the costs of moving Dan's body, but the family is uncomfortable with the idea of disturbing his grave, she said.

"We just laid him to rest, and now we have to deal with the stress of trying to figure outdo we have to exhume our father?"

Angela Griffith says her family is heartbroken over the idea of digging up her father and moving him to another plot. (Submitted by Angela Griffith)

Griffith saidwhile her father was not Indigenous, she and her siblings are Mtis, and she has cultural concerns about moving him.

"Even from a cultural standpoint, [we're] wondering what's going to happen to his spirit, you know, when we dig him up, if we have to," said Griffith.

Seeking legal advice

Griffith said her dad was a carpenter who worked hard his whole life and was well-known in the area.

While his grave does not yet have a tombstone, she said her son has marked it with a carpenter's measuring tape something Dan Griffith always had hanging from his belt.

"My dad never took a day off his whole life. He worked every single day and literally, I know it's clich, but my dad would do anything for anybody, and if anyone deserves to be resting in peaceit's him," said Griffith.

Griffith's grave doesn't have a tombstone yet, but his grandson marked it with a carpenter's measuring tape something Griffith was known to always have hanging from his belt. (Submitted by Courtney Hainsworth)

The family is seeking legal advice on how to proceed.

"We're not going to willingly exhume him," she said.

She said she understands the Combs family is also upset, but hopes they can find a solution.

"Just try to understand the pain and how much it just stresses us out, and rips our hearts open to have to think about even exhuming our father."

With files from Meaghan Ketcheson