Father struggles with heartbreak, Pimicikamak continues call for help

A Pimicikamak father said he is taking it daybyday after burying his 14-year-old daughter who died by suicide on Feb. 27.

"It was on March 6ththat we had the funeral," said Sy Umperville. "I know I wasn't supposed to on a Sunday, no burials on that day, but it was her birthday and I wanted to do that for her."

Umpervillenow carries a picture of his daughter in his pocket everywhere he goes. He said he saw her onSaturday before he went out of town to work and she stayed with her grandparents when he was away.

"I hugged her and told her I love her very much. I told her I'll come back in a few days and make sure to bewell behaved and come home early," he said.

He said his daughter was a good student and athlete. He said he saw no warning signs she would soon kill herself.

"She was always happy. I don't know how she got away," he said.

Community frustrated, sayscouncillor

PimicikamakCree Nation (Cross Lake)band councillor Donnie McKay said the number of suicide attempts and suicidal thoughtscontinuesto rise in his community.

"Very, very frustrating and depressing.... You know even at night in my bed I look at my phone wondering when it's going to ring," said McKay.

A special working group has been established to deal with the crisis. The group is made up of professionals who deal with trauma: a doctor, nurse, RCMP officer, social workers, and band councillors.

McKay, who is responsible for the health portfolio, said the group will come up with recommendations to deal with the ongoing crisis and prevention strategies.

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Currently the community of5,858 residentshas only one trained therapist, who isn't in there full time, he said.

The rest of the health staff have some degree of crisis management and suicide intervention training, McKay added.

"If this happened anywhere else like in Dauphin or Brandon all resources available would be there already... but up here [there's] nothing," he said.

Healthcare staff are exhausted and crying out for help too, he said, both levels of government need to do more.

"They say what they say over in their sessions but the immediate deliverable is always at arm's length, and we cannot reach that help," said McKay.

If you or anyone you know is experiencing suicidal thoughts, these resources are available:

• Reason to Live - Manitoba Suicide Hotline
• Manitoba Crisis Services