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Kahnawake community gives residential school survivors something they never had as kids

On Canadas first National Day for Truth and Reconciliation, about 100 members of the Kahnawake community gathered for a music-filled ceremony to celebrate the birthdays of all the children who were forced to attend residential schools.

Birthdays were not usually celebrated, but one survivor remembers a nun giving her a turnip as a gift

Organizers in Kahnawake, located southwest of Montreal, wanted to keep the day emotionally light despite the somber story behind it, all while raising awareness about residential schools. (Chlo Ranaldi/CBC)

Kakaionstha Deer never had a birthday partyas a kid.

"Because when we were in residential school, there were no birthday parties," Deer said.

On Canada's first National Day for Truth and Reconciliation, about 100 members of the Kahnawake community gathered for a music-filled ceremony to celebrate the birthdays of all the children who were forced to attend residential schools.

While honouringthe children who didn't survive residential school, Curran Katsi'sorkwas Jacobs said the ceremony was also a way to show survivors "we're really grateful you've come home."

"Today we are celebrating you and all the birthdays you may not have had. Today is yours."

There were prepared speeches, gifts and birthday cake. Jacobs helped organize the special day.

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Kakaionstha Deer says the Canadian government and the Catholic Church are to blame for the residential school system. Now all Canadians need to learn this history and that of the Indigenous people, she said.

"You know we talk so much about their identity being taken away from them culturally, but even things like getting to use their own names even knowing when their birthdays were and celebrating for some, that experience didn't happen," she said.

It's been a difficult year with the unmarked graves found at residential school sites across Canada, she said.

Raising awareness about the past

Organizers in Kahnawake, located southwest of Montreal, wanted to keep the day emotionally light despite the sombrestory behind it, all while raising awareness about residential schools.

Deer said the Canadian people need to know their history. She said they have to learn about who they are, who their ancestors were and what happened with the Indigenous people starting with the first European settlers who landed here.

Curran Katsi'sorkwas Jacobs said, 'today we are celebrating you and all the birthdays you may not have had. Today is yours.' (Chlo Ranaldi/CBC)

As for her own experience in residential schools, she said the kids worked on a farm and ate what they produced. Most of the time, that's all they ate. She recalled one birthday where she was actually given a gift.

"I had gone to the barn and someone said, 'oh it's your birthday' and the nun gave me a turnip and Ishared it with all my friends and that was my gift," she said.

Father struggled to love, chief says

Chief Harry Angus Skahionhati Rice said many kids in residential schools didn't even know when their birthday was.

Now, he said, the goal is to build awareness about residential schools and why "every child matters."

Rice's father survived residential school, and "there was something taken away from him as a child. Children need to be loved."

He said his father cared deeply for his family, but that lack of love and compassion he experienced as a child affected his parenting and relationship with his wife.

"I know he loved us. I know deep down in his heart he did," said Rice."I believe he wanted to love us more, but he didn't know how."

Rice's father passed away more than 20 years ago, but it's only now that Rice is beginning to realize the lasting impact residential school had on his family growing up.

It's important that Canadians do their research to better understand that traumatic history, he said.

"We didn't do this to ourselves," said Rice. "This was forced on us by the federal Canadian government. It's a crying shame."

Based on a report by Chloe Renaldi