'They are survivors': Privately sponsored refugees adjust to new lives

Everything was left behind the nightFayzaAlHaririand her family fled Syria, except her bronze coffee pot.

Now it sits on her kitchen stove in Fredericton, ready to serve guests with the traditional Arabian coffee.

Its taste isbittersweet.

"Not everyone likes it," she said.

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The lucky ones

There are seven of them, two adults and five children, cramped into a small, three-bedroom basement apartment.

AlHariri'sfamily was among the first to flee the war at home, seeking refuge in Lebanon for four years until they arrived in Fredericton on Dec. 18, 2015.

They are lucky, she said.

Her family was privately sponsored, taken in by the Faith Baptist Church in New Maryland. They had a community of people, a warm, furnished home and a well-stocked fridge waiting for them on that first, cold December night.

In Lebanon, their home had no door. The floor was made of dirt.

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"It was not healthy, my house," she said.

"I was surprised when I first come to my house [in Canada]. I look and there were three bedroomsand salonand we have everything."

Private sponsorship: Faster integration

Since December 2015, New Brunswick has takenin 1,554 Syrian refugees. About 600 of them are school-age children, and604 are working-age adults.

Around 1,400 depend on support from the federal government. Another 128, includingAlHariri'sfamily, were privately sponsored by community groups and individuals.

They also receive money from the government but their private sponsors find them a home, and provide additional income and a network of people to help navigate their new life.

In a recent interview withInformation Morning Fredericton, AlexLeBlanc, the executive director of the New Brunswick Multicultural Council, said privately sponsored refugees often integrate faster and better.

"And part of that is that all privately sponsored refugees have this community of support, whether its church groups or service clubs," saidLeBlanc. "And they all have their own social and professional networks."

Support networks make a difference

A year ago, AlHaririand her childrenspoke no English. Now they are almost fluent.

Faith Baptist Church Pastor Larry Matthews said the family had 20 people looking after them since they arrived.

The volunteers drove them everywhere from doctors' appointments to AlHariri'sdaily English lessons.

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Others helped them navigate all legal and health care documents, organized birthday parties for the childrenor invited them into their home.

"When you are talking seven people it's been almost a full-time job just doing that," he said.

"Quite often their dentist wasn't just a one trip to the dentist. Sometimes it was two or three or four trips to the dentist because they haven't had much health care in recent years."

He cannot imagine what it's like when refugees arrive and have no one to work with them one-on-one, he added.

"I don't know how they do it. I don't know how they get around. But they are survivors," he said.

Sponsorship ends after one year

The church's sponsorship commitment ends this month.

The refugees receive financial aid from the government and their sponsors for one year. If they are not employed, they can apply for provincial social assistance afterward.

So far, only 15per cent of refugees in the province are self-employedor work in full- or part-time positions. Another five per cent gained some work experiencein seasonal jobs, such as tree-planting.

But social assistance is only supposed to be a last resort.Government and settlement agencies hope most of the refugees canimprove their language skills in the coming years and find employment.

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What it costs

AlHaririworked as an Arabic-language teacher in Lebanon but her English is not good enough yet to seek employment in New Brunswick.

Her husband, Hasan Alsalh, is deaf and struggles with a childhood injury to his leg. He cannot work, she said.

For most of the year, the family received about $1,200 a month from the government and another $1,300 a month from the church.

In July, the government changed its resettlement assistance program, paying out childcare benefits to the family instead.

Since then, they received $2,300 a month from the government and $200 from the church.

Once they go on provincial social assistance, AlHaririsays they get $2,300 a month from the province. She pays $1,070 a month for rent.

"About the money, all the time I am afraid, because I have a big family and my husband he cannot work," she said, adding that she hopes to find work in another year or two.

Adjusting to a new life

The traditional coffee Al Hariri serves to her guests is asmall partof Syrian life shetries to preserve.

The Muslim family went through many changes in the past year. Some of them were easy, while others, such as girls and boys being friends in school, were more difficult to accept, she said.

She sometimes worries her childrenwill lose their culture.Already, her oldest son Mohamad, 12, is forgetting Arabic words while his English improves every day.

But despite these differences,their newlife is treating them well, she said.

"I was very afraid when I come," she said. "But now I am happy, because my children go to school, and my husband relax and I study English, and I have house. It's healthy, it's good."