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An N.L. couple married 7 decades but separated in long-term care are moving back together

Marilyn Gould says her father couldn't contain his joy when he got the news that he'll soon be living with his wife of almost 70 years again.

Marilyn Gould says her father couldn't contain his joy when he got the news

An elderly husband and wife smile at each other lovingly.
Jim and Theresa Woolfey have been married for almost 69 years. (Submitted by Marilyn Gould)

Marilyn Gould says her father couldn't contain his joy when he got the news that he'll soon be living with his wife of almost 70 years again.

"I was on my phone in the car and the social worker was trying to tell me and [Dad] was hooting and hollering and she said, 'Well, I guess I'll take that as a yes?'" she said.

Gould's father, Jim Woolfrey,has been separated from his wife, Theresa,for about a year and a half because they require different levels of care.

People just need to keep it alive until this policy is changed so that seniors are not separated in their later years.- Marilyn Gould

TheWoolfreys are both 86 years old. He needs Level1 care, for people who are independently mobile but need some help, and she needs Level 3 care, for people who require at least three hours of supervision over a 24-hour period.

Newfoundland and Labrador is struggling witha shortage of long-term care beds andworkers to provide care. It means long-term care facilities that provide higher levels of care can't also accept someonelike Jim, who doesn't require as much help.Sothe Woolfreyswereforced to live apart.

In February, provincial healthminister Tom Osborne announceda review of personal and long-term care homes, including facilities'inability to accept couples who require different levels of care

In early March, Osborne told CBC News that short term solutions are coming soon. For the Woolfreys, at least, a solution has arrived.

"On Friday at about 4 0'clock Tom Osborne called me and said there are going to be some changes and Dad will be able to get in with Mom, and then about noon on Saturday the long-termcare director called me and said that she had gotten word that this needed to be taken care of, and then Tuesday they called and said a bed is going to be ready in a few days," said Gould.

The Woolfreys aren't living together yet but Gould expects they will be by Monday.

An elderly man sits in a red armchair on a bright, sunny day with a younger woman sitting on another chair to his right, holding a cellphone.
Marilyn Gould, right, says she wants her father and mother to be able to spend more time together in their remaining years. (Mark Quinn/CBC)

She and her family have been doggedly pushing for the change for months. They've spoken out about their family's situation on social media and said yes to every media request for interviews.

"I don't know whose chain we yanked on or if it was just cumulative over time, sending letters and emails,but I think everybody was on the same page that this should never be," said Gould.

She has advice for other families facing a similar situation.

"Keep at it. Keep going. Wherever you can go, keep trying. Never give up," said Gould

"We've been at this for ayear and a half, andthere have been points where we said, 'It's not going to happen,' but people just need to keep it alive until this policy is changed so that seniors are not separated in their later years."

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