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LGBTQ seniors in N.L. need social connections, boosts to long-term care training: report

A new report delves into the challenges facing aging members of the province's LGBTQ community and offers some solutions.

Some seniors fear being forced back into the closet as they age

The report was compiled by Quadrangle N.L., with help from Gray Gays N.L. and the City of St. John's. (Submitted by Charlie Murphy)

As Pamela Sheaves approaches 60, the usual concerns about aging are on the horizon.

There are worries of loneliness, and trying to stay independent as long as possible. But as a member of Newfoundland and Labrador's LGBTQcommunity, as she looks to her future decades, other thoughtsweighon her, too.

"Acceptance. That's so important," said Sheaves, who lives in St. John's. "The ability to feel safe and secure in care, and to have the supports within the community."

Acceptance and safety aren't guaranteed,she said, having heard from others' experiences, particularly in long-term care.

"Many seniors in the LGBT+ community, out of fear, go back into the closet," she said. "This is detrimental to persons' mental health and physical health as well. There's a great deal of fearthere."

A new report, considered the first of its kind, sheds more light on what faces LGBTQ seniors in Newfoundland and Labrador, and offers up ideas for change.The report by Quadrangle N.L., a group that seeks to bolster the province's LGBTQ community, involved surveying and interviewing community members over the age of 50, as well as long-term care providers.

While national studies on LGBTQ seniors have drawn a little bit of data from this province, the smaller community in Newfoundland and Labradormeans getting a better sense of the landscape here can help create targeted responses, said one of the report's researchers.

"Things need to be more intentional in order to address that loneliness and isolation that often happens as we age," Ailsa Craig told CBC Radio's St. John's Morning Show.

Pamela Sheaves says there's ageism within the LGBT community, and there needs to be more work done to connect generations and combat seniors' isolation. (Mike Moore/CBC)

Tackling discrimination

Echoing Sheaves's concerns, Craig said discrimination fears withincommunal living settingsor with in-home care was one theme that cropped up in the report.

While 37 long-term care providers were asked for their input, only four responded. But Craig said that delay was more due to COVID-19 overwhelming the system than the survey itself, and the responses that did come in were useful and aligned with what's being seen on a national level.

All of the long-term care centres surveyed said their staff had no training to address LGBTQ seniors' needs.

"One of the things that came out is that people believe that there's nobody in the home who is a member of our communities," said Craig.

With that knowledge now in hand, the researchers hope there could be a boost in training. Quadrangle N.L. is working with Memorial University's nursing school to create a booklet for long-term care staff, educating them on terminology, how to hold pride events, and other year-round acceptance and diversity measures.

"It's all about just making sure that it's more inclusive, and that people are actually are given the tools and access to knowledge, that they can really empower people within those facilities," said Quadrangle N.L. executive director Charlie Murphy.

Ensuring staff don't assume heterosexuality is also important, said Craig. "If those assumptions aren't built into the training, then it makes it a more welcoming place."

Aisla Craig, left, and Charlie Murphy worked on the Quadrangle N.L. report. Craig was on its research team and Murphy is the organization's executive director. (CBC/Submitted by Charlie Murphy)

Bridging the generation gap

The current crop of LGBTQ seniors in the province face a future complicated by the heightened discriminations of the past.

"The peoplethat we weretalking to for this are among the first generation who lived throughwhen everything was legalized, right?" said Craig. "And not just marriage being legalized, but just existing being legalized,without there being fear of repercussions."

Being among the first publicly out individuals has repercussions, Craig said;older community members don't have the same rates of marriage or children, which is often associated with better financial stability and increased social connections. Half the people surveyed had incomes below $35,000 annually.

The report points to a need to increase waysto give LGBTQ seniors a chance to connect, with each other and younger people too.

"Cross-generational events and possibilities and spaces are really crucial within our community,because you have to find our elders. We're not a community that necessarily reproduces ourselves genetically," said Craig.

"So you have to be able to reach out to each other across ages and find those opportunities for that kind of continuity and connection across age ranges."

Sheaves said there's ageism within the LGBTQcommunity, and better education within the community needs to happen.

"Because our history is not complied, because our history is not recorded, and because our history is not taught or available to our own youth, a lot of messages get lost there, and the older community is sometimes not valued, " she said.

Connecting generations is part of Quadrangle N.L.'s mandate, said Murphy, and the report highlights how important that is to continue, "just always incorporating everyone, as one big collective unit."

The report was compiled with assistance from the LGBT seniors' group Gray Gays N.L. Sheaves is a co-founder and former member of the group and financial help from the City of St. John's.

Read morefrom CBC Newfoundland and Labrador

With files from The St. John's Morning Show