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Hospital wedding caps 'true love story' for Nunavut man facing terminal cancer

There was a bittersweet wedding ceremony this week in a Yellowknife hospital chapel. Long-time lovebirds Roy and Sylvia Klengenberg got hitched, though they may not have many days together as husband and wife.

They'd talked about it for years, and this week Roy and Sylvia Klengenberg got hitched in a hospital chapel

A man in a wheelchair holds hands with a woman holding a bouquet of flowers, as another woman stands behind them reading from a folder.
Roy and Sylvia Klengenberg were married on Wednesday at Yellowknife's Stanton Territorial Hospital, where Roy is a cancer patient. The two have been together for about 20 years, and decided to finally tie the knot. (Rita Pigalak)

Sylvia Klengenbergremembers the first time she saw the love of her life.

"I was a teenager, andhe was carving outside his house. And I just looked at his eyes and I said to myself, 'Someday he's gonna be mine,'" shesaid.

She wasn't wrong. SylviaTologanak and Roy Klengenbergeventually connected,years later, and this week after two decades together they decided to finally tie the knot.

But the wedding ceremony, held Wednesday in the chapel at Yellowknife's Stanton Territorial Hospital, was bittersweet the couple may not have many days together as husband and wife.

"He's been fighting prostate cancer for four years," Sylviasaid.

"And just recently, in July, we found out that he has stage 4 double-lung cancer. So he doesn't have much longer."

'He's my everything'

When the couple first met in Yellowknife, about 20 years ago, they were soon inseparable. Sylviais originally from Cambridge Bay, Nunavut, but she decided to move with Royto his home town of Kugluktuk.

"We've never been apart," she said.

"He took me all over the land in Kugluktuk, all over Kugluktuk camping, here and there, all the hotspots and everything. And he even showed me how to sew again. So he's my everything."

The lovebirds had long planned on getting married, but Sylviasaid other things always seemed to getin the way. Money was tight.Roywas often busy with his work as a carver. Then, he got sick.

A man in a parka and blanket sits outside a building in a wheelchair with a smiling woman standing beside him with her arm around him.
'She was always there for me,' said Roy. (Sylvia Klengenberg/Facebook)

"It never did work out," Sylviasaid.

Finally, this week, it did in a matter of hours, andwith some help from family and friends. Roywasin the hospital and Sylviawasstaying with him there, helping him every day with his breakfast or coffee, taking him outside for some fresh air, and sleeping beside his bed on a mattresson the floor.

"My wife, she looked after me for a long time at the hospital ... she was always there for me," Roy said.

"We need to get a bunk bed," he laughed.

A helpful stepsister and a borrowed suit

Sylvia's stepsister had come for a visitwhen Royexplained that he wanted to marry.

"And she just went on the phone and made all the arrangements, brought the dress, the matching silver rings, the bouquet, the cake,and the decorations that we have in our room," Sylviasaid.

"He's got family here and I also have family here, and so we thought it might be special to have the wedding here."

A paper heart, decorated with flowers, is posted on a whiteboard and reads, 'Congrats Mr. and Mrs. Klengenberg.'
Decorations at Stanton Territorial Hospital, where Roy and Sylvia Klengenberg were married on Wednesday. Roy was a cancer patient at the hospital. (Sylvia Klengenberg/Facebook)

Roy was able to borrow a cousin's suit, andthey were all set.

"She always wanted to be a Klengenberg," Roysaid. "I don't know why she wanted to change [her name]. But she's a Mrs. Klengenberg now."

For Sylvia, the marriage solidifies her tie to Klengenberg's family and the community of Kugluktuk. That's home now, she says, and she has no plans to leave.

After the wedding, the couple planned to celebrate with some steak and shrimp.

"That's what we want, and whatever desserts, anything he wants, I shall try and get for him," Sylvia said.

A close up of two hands wearing matching silver wedding rings.
Roy and Sylvia show off their matching silver wedding rings. (Sylvia Klengenberg/Facebook)

She described their connection as a "true love story."

"I'm very proud to be his wife. He's my everything ...we take care of each other, and that's what love is all about," she said, tearing up.

"I will never,ever forget how he's been there for me, thick and thin, and I've been there for him, too. I will always be there for him, no matter where he is. He's always going to be in my life."

Roy agreed.

"Thank you to my wife for everything. I always love you. Forever," he said.