Son of Iran crash victim says father 'stood strong'

MansourPourjam's son Ryan says his father always strived to be positive.

"I can't remember a single moment in my life where Mansour, my dad, had any trace of negativity in his voice or actions," the 13-year-old boy told a crowd of mourners Wednesday at Carleton University.

"He'd always tell me to stay positive, through the dark times and through the good, when we'd get stuck in traffic or when I couldn't get the coffee that I wanted."

More than200 people came out on Wednesday toa vigil at the university to remember bothPourjam, an Ottawa dental technician who graduated from the school,and PhD student Fareed Arasteh both victims in last week's crashof Ukraine International Airlines Flight PS752 outside Tehran.

Iran's Revolutionary Guard shot down the aircraft on Jan. 8,killingall 176 passengers and crew members including 57 Canadian citizens.

'No words' can fill void

Mansour Pourjam had been working at the Ottawa Denture andImplant Centrein Bells Corners at the time of his death.

"If I could describe [my father] in one word, it would be strong. He's been through tragedy after tragedy, wall after wall, wrong turn after wrong turn and he's stood strong," his son said, as people in the audience wiped their eyes.

"He was amazing. We loved each other."

Arasteh, meanwhile, was performingPhDresearch atthe university's biology department, where he was studying molecular genetics. He'dreturned to Iran for the holidays to marry his long-time girlfriend.

His close friend and roommate Reza Sananfartold the crowd Arastehwas a "dreamer" who worked hard to achieve his goals and would also help his friends fulfil their own dreams.

"Although Fareed didn't get to spend much time here at Carleton, I can see that he touched so many lives while he was walking among us here," Sananfar said.

"I thought talking about him would help me to accept the fact that he is not coming back. But there are no words that can ease the pain, or fill the void that many of us are feeling inside us."

Carleton University president Benoit-Antoine Bacon saidit was important to have this gathering to help the community grieve and begin to heal.

Universities across the country paused to honourthe victims Wednesday,as many of the passengers on the flightwerestudents, faculty members and researchers.

The University of Ottawa has said that threeof the victims were students there, while Queen's University has confirmed one of its undergraduate students died in the crash.