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Co-living arrangements offer more than cost-savings, roommates say

As rents skyrocket, many are looking to creative co-living arrangements as a way of getting by. In Ottawa, some are finding their new arrangements offer more than just cost savings.

As rents skyrocket, many are turning to unconventional living situations

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As rents skyrocket, many are looking to creative co-living arrangements as a way to save money. Some are finding other benefits. (Kim Brunhuber/CBC)

After 10 years of saving, Pat Dunn and her husband took the leap into retirement, and in 2011 travelled to the Caribbean to live aboard their boat.

Three years later, their retirement dream came crashing down when Dunn's husband died of a heart attack in Mexico. He was 66 and she was 64.

Dunn sold the boat and moved back to Ontario, but soon found herself strapped for cash as her savings dwindled. By the fall of 2018, she was on the edge.

"I had to do something," she told CBC'sOttawa Morningon Wednesday. "I tried all the regular routes, tried to get seniors housing, but it was a 10-year waitlist. I thought there had to be a better way than living in my car."

Pat Dunn, founder of SeniorWomenLivingTogether is shown in this undated handout photo.
After facing financial hardship, Pat Dunn was inspired to launch her non-profit Senior Women Living Together, which recentlyexpandedinto the Ottawa Valley. (Handout from Pat Dunn/The Canadian Press)

Dunn opened a Facebook group and invited women in similar positions to join. By the end of the first week it had 50 members. By the end of the month, it had 200.

As a result, Dunn soonfound herself two roommates, and has since helped 56 other women do the same.

"We're lots of fun," she said."We don't party, and if we do we're finished by about 7:30 p.m."

Dunn's Facebook group grew into a thriving non-profit,Senior Women Living Together, which recentlyexpandedinto the Ottawa Valley.

It's a modern take on The Golden Girls. We meet the mastermind behind a group called, "Senior Women Living Together."

Rising rents, creative solutions

The non-profit's expansion coincides historically high rentsin Ottawa, according to a February report from Rentals.ca.

In February, monthly rents climbed 9.1 per cent over February2023, to an overall average of $2,219.

The average cost of a one-bedroom unit in Ottawa has risen to$2,045/month, or$2,500 for a two-bedroom.

The report ranked Ottawa 10thon a list of Canadian cities with the most expensive average rent, between Victoriaand Halifax.

"There's very little available anywhere," Dunn said."Affordability can be a problem even when you're sharing with three or four others because the rents just started to skyrocket."

Like Dunn, many Canadians are feeling inspired to expand their horizons when it comes to living arrangements.

There's also been an almost 50 per centincrease in multigenerational households overthe last decade as many as onemillion, the latest census suggests.

But other living arrangements are starting to take flight as well. Those include unrelated parents moving in together tobring up their kids, longtime friends and extended families thatbelieve in the upsides of shared living.

While cost-saving is a clear advantage, co-living arrangements can offer so much more.

A rewarding arrangement

"It gets lonely when you're living on your own, even with a partner," said Mehnaz Tabassum, who lives with her husband, cousin and two brothers.

Tabassum left Bangladesh for Canada 10 years ago, and promised her siblings she'd help them get here, too.

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When she left Bangladesh for Canada eight years ago, Mehnaz Tabussum promised her siblings shed help them get here, too. Now, the family of five (including one husband and a family friend who's 'like a brother') live, work and travel together. In a video for CBC Ottawas Creator Network, they explain why they plan to keep it up, despite sometimes butting heads.

Keeping true to her word, her two brothers came to Canada for their studies, eventually followingTabassumand her husband to Ottawa. Her cousin also shares the space.

Now, the group of five 20-somethings all reside, travel and experience lifetogether.

"The idea of us all growing up together, we just shifted that concept when we moved to Canada," she told CBC's Ontario Today on Wednesday. "We've always lived together and we haven't known anything otherwise."

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Living together comes with its challenges, but there can also be perks. Mehnaz Tabassum, her husband, two brothers and a cousin live together in Ottawa, and they travel together, too, as they did on this trip to Mexico. (Submitted by Mehnaz Tabassum)

They share a four-bedroom house in Ottawa,and even run a non-profit together.NL Eatsdistributesfood hampers,organizes food drivesand fights the stigma associated with food insecurity through education.

For Tabassum, the benefits are clear.

"If one person falls behind or one person gets ahead, you canshift where you have one person doing the dishes more often than one person cooking," she said.

"Coexisting is never easy, whether with your partner or with family. There's a lot of compromise and understanding."

Dunn also understands that people who are used to living independently may have a hard time with the transition.

To get ahead of potential conflicts, she creates comprehensive agreements for new housemates.

It coverscooking, shopping, laundry, overnight guests even a section on aging together.

"What if one of us falls, are we help take care of that person?" she asked. "How do we decide if someone needs to go to the hospital or needs to see a doctor?"

And yes, she's heard the comparison to the sit-com The Golden Girls. But the reality is different, she said.

"It was a comedy, and our lives, when we're searching for a place to live and we're living in unsafe conditions, is not a comedy."

With files from CBC Radio's Ottawa Morning and Ontario Today