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They fled war to find peace in Ottawa. How are these Ukrainian newcomers doing now?

Ukrainians who've settled in Ottawa are opening up about their journeys, moving to Canada with their expedited visas in hand, and what it's been like living here.

Ukrainians reflect on how their lives have changed 1 year since Canada opened its doors

They fled the war in Ukraine. Now they're reflecting on the past year

1 year ago
Duration 3:37
It's been a year since Canada opened its doors to Ukrainians and their families fleeing their country. Natasha Karpova, Anna Fedorova and Olga Men came to Ottawa after fleeing Ukraine in 2022.

Ukrainians who've fled war and settled in Ottawa are opening up about their journeys, moving to Canada with their expedited visas in hand, and what it's been like living here.

It's been a year since Canada opened its doors to Ukrainians and their families fleeing their countryafter Russia's full-scale invasion in February 2022.

TheCanada-Ukraine Authorization for Emergency Travel(CUAET) program grants Ukrainians expedited, temporary visas to settle in Canada. The program was slated to end on March 31, butImmigration Minister Sean Fraser announced in Marchthat itwill be extended until July 15, 2023.

A long-awaited family reunion

Natasha Karpova and her husband both got their expedited visas within weeks of applying in September.

But the family, who lived in thePoltava region ofcentral Ukraine, couldn't immediately leave forCanada because their three kids were still waiting for their CUAET visas.

"We were waiting and waiting and waiting," said Karpova.

In January, after four months of waiting, Karpova decided to come to Ottawa alone to prepare for their new lives and to start her job at a video production company, while her husband and kids stayed behind in France with a host family there.

"I was missing them badly," she said. "Coming to the new country all alone, it was a bit scary."

A woman leans on a sofa in a lobby.
Natasha Karpova was finally reunited with her family in March, after waiting five months for her kids' CUAET visas to be processed. (Priscilla Ki Sun Hwang/CBC)

Karpova said she posted on a Facebook group asking for help, and quickly found her first accommodation with an Ottawa host family. She said they became like a second family that supported her,especially on the anniversary of the invasion this year when she was overwhelmed by theweight of the war back home.

"I just really had a very bad day and they were caringfor me, you know, and I wasn't alone," she said."I had some kind of a family here."

At the end of February, the familyfinally got good news. Everyone, including their husky Jacie,had their paperwork and could finally reunite in Canada.

At the end of March, Karpova let CBCNews come along with her to the Montreal airport to pick up her family.

WATCH | The moment Natasha reunites with her husband and kids at airport:

This Ukrainian family reunited after five months of waiting for their visas

1 year ago
Duration 0:52
Natasha Karpova came to Ottawa alone to prepare for her family's new lives. They reunited at the Montreal airport in March.

"When I look back at this year that passed, it was a horrible year. It was a fantastic year as well," Karpova said. "Sometimes I cry because I grieve, you know? Sometimes I cry because I'm grateful."

Over the past weekend, Karpova's family moved out of an Ottawa hotel to a rental unit they can finally settle into.

"A part of me doesn't let my home go," she said. "Sometimes I'm filled with hope and I think, OK, one day we can go home."

But Karpova says she recently realized something more importantafter being apart from her husband and kids, and formingspecial bonds with their host families in France and Ottawa.

"Where is home?" she said. "Home is where my family is."

A woman sits at a desk.
Olga Men works as a settlement officer with Jewish Family Services in Ottawa. Now she helps others fleeing the war in Ukraine. (Priscilla Ki Sun Hwang/CBC)

Starting from nothing

Olga Men says she put her savings into purchasing a bigger apartment last February, so she and her daughter couldlive more comfortably.

On Feb. 23, 2022, the day before the Russian invasion, they moved in.

"I was very excited and happy," Men recalled. "We moved new furniture to this apartment and finished at 10 p.m. And at 4 [a.m.] in the morning, we heard those explosions and we didn't know what's going on."

Her new property would become "ash and hot stones" in the months that followed, she said.

Men lived in the Donetsk region of eastern Ukraine, where much of the land has been reduced to craters and crumbling homes due toheavy shelling.

"During last year everything was destroyed," said Men. "Literally ... there is no place for me to come back [to]."

A woman and her daughter.
Men and her daughter Miia Men in Canada. Left, their first tubing experience in Wakefield, Que., and right, Men's first time volunteering at her daughter's school. (Submitted by Olga Men)

Men and her 10-year-old daughter arrived in Ottawa last August after what she describes as a months-long ordeal to obtain theirCUAET visa, which involvedtravelling to Poland to be fingerprinted, all while working forthe Red Cross.

When they finally arrived in Canada,Men and her daughterhad just two pieces of luggage between them. They were starting from scratch.

For about a month, Menfelt"disturbed"whenever she heard the sirens of emergency vehicles near her home in downtown Ottawa.

"Everything... was reminding me about some danger in the air," she recalled.

Enrolling her daughter in school presented new challenges. Men learned COVID-19 vaccine requirements differed in Canada, and the school curriculum was years behind Ukraine. Nor did the new school provide hot meals like back home, so Men had to learn to pack lunches for her daughter.

Men also remembers sending out more than 50 resums a day, and doing dozens of interviews a week online and in-person, only to be rejected for jobs for which she was qualified.

"It doesn't matter how many degrees you have, what's your working experience and years," she said."Every organization told me because of the absence of Canadian working experience, it is impossible to hire me."

Men is now a settlement officer with Jewish Family Services in Ottawa, helping newcomers like her who just arrived witha CUAET visa in hand, teaching them everything from how to get a social insurance numberto accessing food banks and walk-in clinics.

Men said she'sgrateful that she and her daughter have remainedhealthy both physically and mentally over the past year, and for her host family's support.

"I'm very glad that my daughter has an opportunity to go to school physically and not hide in some shelters," she said.

She enjoys the little quirks about Ottawa that bring her joy, such asCanadian squirrels.A year later, though, Men said she's stilladjusting.

"Sometimes I can wake up and think that I'm still in Ukraine," she said.

Her next goals areto renttheir own apartment and geta car before next winter.

Men said one of the greatest challenges facing her and other newcomers is simplygetting around the city. Like any true Ottawan, she's felt the pain of waiting for a connecting OC Transpobus during Ottawa's bitter winter.

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Anna Fedorova at Chop Steakhouse in Ottawa. She says she met the love of her life just nine days after arriving in Canada in the spring of 2022. (Priscilla Ki Sun Hwang/CBC)

Finding love in Canada

Anna Fedorovaand her two kidsfled Kyiv on March 6 of last year.

"When I heard first boom, I realized that my kids don't need [that] at all ... so I decided to take them out of Ukraine," she said.

After two months in Hungary, the family arrived in Canada. Fedorovasaid she wasn't expecting to find love so soon.

"I felt likeI need to settle, I need to find a job,"she said.

Instead, just nine days later, she went on a first date.

"Today, we are in a special place," said Fedorova, sitting at a table at Chop Steakhouse, now one of her favourite spots in Ottawa,reminiscing about that date with her Canadian boyfriend. She said it was love at first sight.

"[He's] my big love."

A man and woman hug.
Fedorova hugs her boyfriend in their backyard. The two met last spring after Fedorova and her kids fled Ukraine and received the CUAET visa from Canada. (Submitted by Anna Fedorova)

Fedorovasays she never dreamed of living abroad, but is pleasantly surprised with how it turned out.

"Of course it's very sad reason why I'm here, but otherwise I [wouldn't have] met my boyfriend. I have a conversation with him, 'Can you imagine that we could never meet?'"she said.

"This person from other side of the world for now is the closest person to me."

Fedorova is part of the team at Ottawa Ukrainian Mental Health, and is amanager of the coaching team at Maidan Market, a hub where Ukrainians canreceive settlement services and support.

She plans on applying for permanent residency, while dreaming of the day she can show her partner around Ukraine.

Her next goal is to learn English well enough to provide life-coaching services in the language.

A family poses in front of a house doorstep.
Fedorova, right, poses with her two kids Nikita and Anastasiya Fedorova, and host Sophie Hargest on their first day in Ottawa. (Submitted by Anna Fedorova)

With tears welling in her eyes, Fedorovasays she feels mixed emotions when looking back at the past year.

"Terrible things happened in my country," she said. But the people she met in Canada, like her partner and her host family, giveher much hope.

"I want to say thank you. Thank you to Canada, thank you to all Canadians that I met here," she said."It's a wonderful thing how this war show us a lot ... we see a lot of kindness and love."