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Denied medical assistance in dying in Ottawa, she is going to Brampton

An Ottawa woman who's tried for yearstoget approved for medical assistance in dying says the long wait has significantly reduced her quality of life, andshe hopes for less barriers for others as she prepares to travel five hours away for the procedure next week.

It took years for Margaret Bristow to get approved now she'll travel 5 hours for procedure next week

A woman in glasses and a white flowy dress sits on a couch looking into the camera.
Margaret Bristow sits on her couch in her Ottawa apartment. She didn't get approved for medical assistance in dying in Ottawa after several years and attempts. She will get her procedure on Aug. 10, at a hospital in Brampton, Ont., instead. (Priscilla Ki Sun Hwang/CBC)

An Ottawa woman who's tried for yearstoget approved for medical assistance in dying says the long wait has significantly reduced her quality of life, andshe hopes others won'tface as manybarriers as she prepares to travel five hours away for the procedure next week.

Margaret (Maggie)Bristowdescribes her chronic pain as "intolerable" and"paralyzing," livingwith degenerative disc disease, fibromyalgia, spinal stenosis, arthritis in the spine as well as bulging discs and bone spurs.

"It feels like people are taking ice picks and shoving them into my chest.My skin feels like it's being burned off my body24/7," said Bristow from her couch,sitting as still as she could.

She saidfor two decades, shehas sleptsitting because of her back pain.

"For the last little while, it just feels like my bottom of my spine is going to come out of my skin," said Bristow, wincing in pain.

Bristow describes her successful career decades ago in the aerospace industry as "one of the best times of my life." She was also passionate aboutfostering shelter dogs, and fondly tells stories about falling in love with each of them.

But in 1998, the pain began and her health startedto decline significantly.

WATCH | Bristow describes her journey:

Woman forced to travel for medical assistance in dying after being denied in Ottawa

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Margaret Bristow, who has lived with severe chronic pain since 1998, says she was elated to finally access medical assistance in dying after being rejected three times by Ottawa-based assessors. Shes planning to travel to Brampton for the procedure in August.

After seeing a neurologist, neurosurgeons,pain specialistsand trying various therapies andopioid medicationsfor her chronic pain, Bristow said "nothing really worked on me."

Bristow saidshe applied for medical assistance in dying, also called MAID, three times since theprocedure was decriminalized in 2016 twice prior and once after therecent legislativechangesin 2021 broadened the eligibility criteria for patients.

All three times, she said, her Ottawa assessors declared her ineligible.

"I could have followed another route, instead of [them] dragging me and making me wait, making me hopeful. They chose to make my life horrible," said Bristow.

When she inquired why she got denied recently, Bristow said she was told her assessor wasn't "comfortable" approving her.

"They left me, tossed to the side, like, suffer."

A woman sits on a couch in a living room.
Bristow sits in her living room in Ottawa in July. That month, she heard news that her request for MAID had been approved in the Greater Toronto Area. (Nick Persaud/CBC)

Forced to turn elsewhere

A patient must have "a grievous and irremediable medical condition" to be eligible for MAID, according to the federal framework which means they have a serious and incurable illness, diseaseor disability; are in an advanced state of irreversible decline incapability; and are enduring physical or psychological suffering that's intolerable to them and can't be relievedunder conditions that they consider acceptable. Since 2021,patients likeBristoware eligible even if "natural death is not reasonably foreseeable."

Bristow saidher family doctor connected her with MAID assessors in the Toronto area this spring.

Last month,Bristow got news she was approved.

"[I'm] just over the moon that Ifinally, after all those years of fighting, that I finally get to get what I need," she said.

Her procedure will take place on Aug. 10.She will travel to Brampton, Ont., where her provider istaking strong pain killers to help her get there. She chose to do it at a hospitalbecause she wants to donate her organs.

"I thought Ottawa'sthe capital city of Canada. Why do they not give me the same thing? Why did they force me to gopretty much over their heads and make me travel," said Bristow, who's been housebound foryears.

"Shame on Ottawa."

Eligibility results can differ per clinician

Dr. Chantal Perrot, a Toronto family physician and MAID provider, saidshe's assessed a few patients from Ottawa who had difficulty finding an assessor in a timely manner.

"That's part of the challenge," she said. "There aren't that many of us across the country."

Perrot explained how MAID co-ordination is not standardized across the country; for instance, while Ottawa has a regional network, there's no network like that in Toronto.

A woman in glasses sits on a couch and looks into the camera, and a grab bar in the foreground.
Bristow has tried to get medical assistance in dying for years in Ottawa, where she lives. Though several assessors denied her here, she got approved and will go to Brampton, Ont., for the procedure next week. (Nick Persaud/CBC)

It's not uncommon to hear about patients travelling to get MAID in Ontario, she said, because there may not be health-care professionals close by, willingor able to provide MAID in some areas. Some even travel from province to province.

Each assessor comes to a clinical decision regarding a patient's eligibilityon a case-by-case basis, based on their interpretation of the legislation, the patient's history and conditions, she explained.

"It happens not infrequently that a person will be found ineligible by one assessor, but found eligible by somebody else," Perrot said.

Ottawa MAID respectsdoctors' rights to refuse

Champlain Regional MAID Network, which runs through The Ottawa Hospital, declined an interview.

In an email, the network said all health-care professionals take part on avoluntary basis.

If a doctor or nurse practitioneris "unavailable or uncomfortable" during the process, the network saidit makes "all efforts" to refer patients to other providers who can support them.

"The right to conscientious objection is a core value and principle of MAID," the statement reads."If a provider is not willing to accept a case, we respect that right."

The province's Ministry of Health also declined an interview. If a regional networkdeclines a patient,its care co-ordination service helps connect them to alterative clinicians, it said.

A regional network may have its own issues with capacity, resources orinternal policiesthat may prevent it from providing MAID to some patients, the ministry said.

The world losing 'a gem,' says friend

Ann Marie Gaudon met Bristowthrough the Chronic Pain Association of Canada, and calls her a good friend.

"I have seen an incredibly proud woman, I have seen grace, I have seen thoughtfulness, generosity, plenty of love and even moments of humour despite the situation," said Gaudon.

She calls Bristow a "survivor, through and through."

"Maggie is a gem and we're all going to lose her. The world is going to lose her," Gaudon said.

A photo of a man and woman on a table, which has a flower table cloth on it.
A photo of Bristow's late fianc and 'soulmate' Brian sits on her coffee table. (Priscilla Ki Sun Hwang/CBC)

Bristow saidshe wants to share her story inhopes others won't experience similar barriers in the future.

For people who have been denied MAID, she recommends seeking helpfrom a family physician, a specialist or advocate, or the province's care co-ordination team.

While holdinga photo of her and her late fianc Brian, Bristow said she's looking forward to reuniting with her "soulmate."

"This is the love of my life," she said.

"Not many people get to meet their true love. And I have and I had him for four-and-a-half years.And I hope to see him soon."