Chatbots: Why should we be nice to them?

It's becoming easier than ever to converse with a robotwith products and applications likeFacebookMessenger, Apple'sSiri, the Amazon Echo chatbotAlexa,andGoogleNow.Tech companies are betting big on conversational bots as the next big thing.

But you might want to be nice to those bots.CBC Radiotechnology columnist Dan Misenersaystheway we treat them reveals a lot about who we are as humans.

Why is it important to start thinking about human-robot relations?

Because the chatbots are coming, and we're just starting to see the first wave.

Facebookrecentlyunveiled its plans for chatbots that live inside itsMessenger app. These are conversational robots that you message back and forth with to get news, play gamesand buy things.

And Facebook's not alone.Google, Amazon,Apple andMicrosoftare all working on chatbotsand artificial intelligence robots you talk to, essentially.

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"We're going to be interacting much more with artificial agents in the form of robots, in the form of bots, in the form of A.I.," saidKate Darling. She'sa researcher at MIT whose speciality is human-robot interaction.

"It is definitely in our very near-term future."

Outside of North America, we've seen huge adoption of chatbots in places like China, where millions of people use the messaging app WeChat not just to chat with friends, but to chat with bots that let them shop and paybills.

As we interact with more and more bots, the question ariseshow should we treat them?

Do bots care how we talk to them?

They don't "care" in the same way a human cares, of course.If I'm mean to a bot, I'm not going to hurt its feelings.

But we are starting to see bots that are programmed to respond differently based on how you talk to them them.For instance, there's a weatherchatbot called Poncho. You can alsotalk to it about movies.But if you're rude to Poncho, it will call you outand ask for an apology.

And if you continue to be be rude to Poncho, it'll just stop talking to you, giving you the silent treatment for 24 hours.

The developers say that Poncho's software assigns you a sort of "niceness score," which you don't see, but which can impact the level of service you get.

Ifwe're rude to bots, will webecome rude to humans?

In the field of robot ethics, this is one of the big concerns.

While you won't hurt the bot's feelings,Kate Darling says the way you treat a robot can say a lot about you.

"We've actually done some research that shows that there is a relationship between people's tendenciesfor empathy and the way that they're willing to treat a robot," she said.

"You know how it's a red flag if your date is nice to you, but rude to the waiter? Maybe if your date is mean to Siri, you should not go on another date with that person."

It raises a very 21st-century dating criterion:"Must be kind to robots."

What about kids' relationships with robots?

There's not a lot of research into this so far, but it issomething that, at least anecdotally, some parents are worried about.

For instance, the venture capitalist Hunter Walk recently wrote about the Amazon Echo a "smart speaker"which features a voice-activated assistant called Alexa.

Hunter noticed that when his young kids talked to Alexa, they didn't need to say "please" when asking it to do something.As a parent who's trying to teach his kids good manners, he worries about technology that let you boss it around.

When I asked Kate Darling about this, she told me there's no conclusive research on this. So we don't know what kinds of expectations, if any, this sets up in kids. And wedon't know if technology that tolerates poor manners translates into rude kids.

But she did say we should be cautious about this, especially when it comes to children, because they're still developing behavioural patterns.

What's next for chatbots?

Mass-market chatbots are a relatively new thing in North America. Besides Facebook's big recent chatbot push,other messaging apps like Kik (which is based here in Canada)and Telegram are working on their own chatbot infrastructure.

But if we want a preview of what mainstream bot usage might look like, we need only look to markets like China with WeChat, or Japan with LINE, where chat and messaging services are used for much more than communicating with friends and colleagues.

These apps, and thebots that live within them,are used for paying bills, buying thingsand playing games.

WeChat, for instance, has more than 200 million credit cards attached to users' accounts, and it has a pretty robust payment system.

These are the success stories that companies focused on North America want to replicate.So don't be surprised if, in the next year or so, businesses start trying to interact with you through a chatbot.

And if they do, think long and hard about how nice you want to be to those chatbots.

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