4 W t bm mr lkbl ntntl

If u blv tht people don't lk u, r u wnt l to lk u more - u nd t rd th. We ll wnt other l t lk u. It' n inherent rt f our ntur t wnt to feel loved nd appreciated. However thr wll b n whn rnlt jut don't lk. S, how do u get people t lk u?

Fml mmbr, frnd, wrk llgu, b, kd n th lgrund, trngr n a br... whtvr th tutn, the rltnh you buld wth others n thr create a hrmnu l bond r a ntntl btnt bttl f wll. Th t wll help u to gt thr to lk you:

1. Rt dvrt - Evrn is dffrnt, get ud to t. Yu'v all m r l that u ndrd to be wrd or trng n m way. Th dn't nfrm to ur d of 'tbl' th dn't ft in to ur thinking 'ur knd f rn.' It' OK, w'r not programmed to lk vrbd. W all hv different backgrounds, dffrnt upbringings nd dffrnt vlu. Just rmmbr to k n n mind and dn't judge l.

2. Smile - It may b bvu, nd we ll utmtll tnd t ml when w mt mn nw anyway but mlng is a gn of wrmth nd sends out a tv vibe f rtn. Think about your wn xrn. How wuld you feel f you met someone fr the frt time nd thr expression w tn cold and ru? Yur defence brrr wuld automatically ht u nd your mnd would be rmng 'NO!' S ml more. It doesn't t u anything.

3. Lk ntrtd - It' qut ff-uttng t see mn ddrmng r bored when u'r trying t tlk t thm. Tk an interest in what they're ng and rl urtul wth ur wn trnd f wdm. Ak questions and mk it n interactive nvrtn. Pl gt excited whn u ask them fr mr information n a subject th lrd knw but. Th wll ntntl like u bu you're ntrtd n thm. We dn't see l hw th are, w see people hw WE are.

4. Maintain eye ntt - Wthut trng thm out, bvul. When u look nt a rn' eyes you're subconsciously lkng nt thr soul. Eye contact rnl, tmultng nd (mbnd with a smile) a great way t become ntntl lkbl. It l hw tht you care about th person u'r tlkng t. And if u r about someone, th will lk u.

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My name is Michael Chapman, founder of PersonalityDevelopmentMastery.com , the site where people are encouraged to live actively and improve their lives.