All hail Bachelor Nation s new woke bae, Anthony Battle! Though the 26-year-old education software manager didnt get much airtime on The Bachelor ette before his week five exit, he made a splash Monday night with a Men Tell All smackdown for the ages and a succinct explainer on implicit racism that should be mandatory viewing.
After far too many weeks of Rachel Lindsays season of The Bachelorette were wasted on contestant Lee Garretts race-baiting, deception and pot-stirring, the Men Tell All episode unfortunately forced us all to relive his unpleasant arc on the show. In happier news, however, the black men of The Bachelorette stepped up in a big way. Contestants including DeMario Jackson, Will Gaskins, and Josiah Graham doggedly and eloquently confronted Garrett about his history of racist tweets and his malicious behavior toward black contestants like Kenny King.
And none spoke more powerfully than Battle, a former Fulbright scholar and Northwestern football player.
By the time Garrett sat in the hot seat, several contestants most notably King, who criticized him for acting dismissive and disingenuous had strongly insinuated their lack of respect for him. Host Chris Harrison amped up the heat, displaying several of the offensive tweets that had gotten Garrett in hot water earlier in the season, including one favorably comparing the KKK to the NAACP and asking him to account for them. Asked to account for the tweets, he blamed lack of context and vaguely claimed that he had been inconsiderate and had a lot to learn. Though he put up a placating front and continued to apologize for hurting feelings, he carefully avoided admitting to any racism. I dont like racism at all, he opined at one point. It bothers me inside.
After Harrison, King, and Graham questioned him about the bigoted undertones of his tweets and behavior, Battle grew impatient with Garretts evasions and decided to address the problem head-on and in detail. In short, he gave a mini-tutorial on how implicit bias, instilled by a white hegemony, can lead even those who dont identify as racist to speak and act in racist ways.
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You havent acknowledged exactly what were trying to forgive you for, he pointed out. Youre not acknowledging the kind of invisible racism in your mind. You may not be doing it intentionally, but I think its still motivating your actions. The racism that is ingrained in your behavior to the point of invisibility is pushing you to act... in a way that you dont even recognize.
Given that background, Battle asked Garrett, Where are you now, are you acknowledging that, even if you didnt intend it, are your actions motivated by racist thoughts that are implicitly embedded in your mentality? Unfortunately, its not clear he got the message. Anthony, youve always been well-spoken, he replied. Groan.
Even after this thoughtful explainer, it took a lot more handholding from Harrison and prodding from Gaskins before Garrett would concede that even that one individual tweet was racist. Finally, he got to hug it out with King as a sign of good will (which its not at all clear he deserved). Whew calling out racism without making the perpetrators feel too bad is hard work! And lest we forget, its work that the black stars of the season, including Lindsay herself and black suitors like Battle, should never have had to do, and would not have had to do had ABC not cast Garrett.
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Bachelor Nation, and ABC, lets consider ourselves blessed to have Battles intimidating vocabulary and wokeness on hand to deliver the hard truths.
Anthony doesnt speak much, but when he does. We thought he was deaf until week two. .LISTEN. #MENTELLALL #thebachelorette
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