Long-distance partners often have to work harder at their relationships than couples who live together or close to one another.

And though this arrangement can be a struggle at times, putting in that extra effort can really pay off in the long run.

So what can you do to a better partner in a LDR? We asked couples and therapists alike what actions or habits make a big difference in the relationship. Heres what they told us.

1. Communicate consistently, but at a cadence that works for both of you.

For some couples, that might be scheduling set times to talk twice a day, once before bed, or a few nights per week. Others might prefer a looser structure for their check-ins. Figure out a rhythm that makes you both feel secure in the relationship but also leaves time for the other important parts of your life, like family, friends, work, hobbies and downtime. Then try to stick to whatever you decide.

Every couple is different some find it helpful to have set times to talk while others may feel this is too controlling, psychologist Rebecca Leslie of Living Fully Psychological Services, who was in an LDR before she got married, told HuffPost. It is important you and your partner are on the same page when it comes to communication. Have an open and honest conversation about what works for you and why it works for you.