Gwyneth Paltrow and Brad Falchuk are navigating life as a blended family on their own terms.

The Goop founder married the TV producer on Sept. 29 at her home in Amagansett, New York. Although theyve now been married for nine months, Paltrow recently revealed in an interview with the Sunday Times that she and Falchuk do not live together full time. He spends three nights a week at his Brentwood, Los Angeles home with his two kids from his previous marriage to Suzanne Bukinik and four nights at Paltrows home, where she lives with her kids, Apple and Moses, from her marriage to Coldplay singer Chris Martin.

Oh, all my married friends say that the way we live sounds ideal and we shouldnt change a thing, Paltrow said in the interview.

And Paltrows intimacy teacher, Michaela Boehm, agrees that the polarity that this set-up offers is good for their relationship.

According to Variety, though, Falchuk recently listed his Brentwood home for $10 million, so the arrangement could be changing in the future.