A spoiled kid is one who thinks and acts like the world revolves around them. Theyre used to getting what they want, when they want it and if they dont, theyll throw a fit until they do. They show little to no appreciation for what they have and expect others to cater to them, often without contributing anything in return.

Some parenting experts dont like to use the word spoiled to describe a child because it implies theyre somehow ruined. Some prefer the word entitled, with a focus on labeling the negative behavior, not the kids character.

According to parenting coach Amy McCready, founder of Positive Parenting Solutions , examples of entitled behavior might include the expectation that things will be done for them, like the household chores, or awarded to them unnecessarily, like getting candy for trying one bite of broccoli or getting paid to do homework.

Entitled kids may also believe they are the center of the universe and that rules dont apply to them, McCready said. They usually get their way and fail to show gratitude.

All kids will have off days when they act up from time to time. So its important to distinguish between whether your child is just having a rough day or they are exhibiting spoiled behaviors consistently, said McCready, who wrote the book The Me, Me, Me Epidemic: A Step-by-Step Guide to Raising Capable, Grateful Kids in an Over-Entitled World.