Jodie Turner-Smith was measured and mindful while addressing her divorce from Joshua Jackson in an interview with the U.K.s Sunday Times Style published this week.

In what were her first comments on the split since it became public last fall, the British actor said, Sometimes things we really want to work just dont end up working. And thats OK.

The most important thing is that you choose whats healthiest for you and your family and definitely your children, continued Turner-Smith, who shares three-year-old daughter Juno Rose with her now ex.

There are so many different moments in our life where we look at ourselves and say, Who am I and am I being true to that? she asked herself.