Dating John Mayer used to come with the near-promise of the singer writing a song about you and later revealing lurid details about your skills in bed. Which is probably why a lot of image-conscious celebrities are hesitant to date the 40-year-old now.

While they wont go out with him, Mayer said that A-listers will hang out with him but only if his BFF Andy Cohen is around.

You have a lot of friends who, without you, would want nothing to do with me and I find that exciting, Mayer said on an episode of Watch What Happens Live that aired over the weekend. Youre friends with Jennifer Lawrence , who just, she doesnt wanna have anything to do with me. I dont have the greatest track record when it comes to celebrity relationships.

Its amazing to watch your friends humor me on a friend level but also keep a fair distance from me, he said, as Cohen laughed. Because if you are someone who cares about your image... dating John Mayer, at this point, is just conceptually sort of a no-no.