We asked the BuzzFeed Community * to tell us secrets theyve discovered their kids have kept from them, and some of the answers were shocking. Heres what they had to say.

*We also sourced answers from these Reddit threads .

1. My daughter is 15 and is already very sexually active. We took her to the hospital, and we found out she had genital herpes. She said she probably got it from dirty toilet paper from her camping trip that happened last month. I didnt believe in that, but I told her I did. So, a few days ago, I took her phone (she was in detention for something else). ... I read some of her messages between her and some friend. They were talking about body counts. I didnt know what that meant, so I googled it. So, my daughter slept with seven scrampy boys and got HERPES from one of them.

u/missing7yrs

2. One year, my husband and I were having a really hard time getting up in time for work for, like, two months straight. Years later, we found out our daughter was drugging us so she could sneak out. Either of us could have died, and she thinks its funny she used to do that. Needless to say, she no longer lives with us and will not be allowed back if ever she falls on hard times.

Anonymous