The isolation of the pandemic gave many of us a newfound appreciation for simple forms of socialization, like getting together at a friends home.

Although we might be more freely attending house parties, potluck dinners and casual living room gatherings to watch sports on the couch, that doesnt give people free rein to behave however theyd like in someone elses space.

We asked etiquette experts to share some common rude behaviors when visiting someone elses home and advice for avoiding them.

Touching and moving things

When someone says Make yourself at home, they usually do not mean this literally, said Jodi R.R. Smith, president of Mannersmith Etiquette Consulting . You should keep your feet off the furniture, and unless this is a close friend, you should not be opening the fridge without being asked to do so.

Wait for the host to give you the go-ahead to touch or interact with things you see. Until that happens, quickly ask for permission if something strikes your fancy.

Ask before touching an object or removing a book from a shelf, advised Nick Leighton, an etiquette expert, and co-host of the Were You Raised by Wolves? podcast .

Expecting a tour

Dont demand a tour of someones home, Leighton urged. Wait to be invited by your host.

Many people are happy to lead a little tour of their space when they invite people over, but that isnt true of everyone at all times. And if your host doesnt offer a tour, dont take it upon yourself to give yourself one, either.

Dont take a tour of the house unless you are encouraged by the host to wander around, said Diane Gottsman , an etiquette expert, author of Modern Etiquette for a Better Life and founder of The Protocol School of Texas.

Overstaying your welcome

Know when its time to leave, urged Leighton. The number one complaint we hear from hosts is about guests who overstay their welcome.

You might still be enjoying your nightcap or get the sense everyone is having a great time chatting. But pay attention to the hosts body language and suggest that those who want to continue hanging out relocate elsewhere.

If your hosts have changed into their pajamas, thats probably a good sign that its time to go, Leighton added.

Hiding a mess

Unfortunately, things happen when youre in another persons home. You might accidentally spill red wine on the carpet or knock over a lamp. Dont ignore or try to hide it.

If you break something, or even just finish the roll of toilet paper, it is best to let your host know as quickly and quietly as possible, Smith said.