Father and son saved by bone marrow transplants 20 years apart

It was a simple cheek swab that saved a New Brunswick father and his son nearly 20 years apart.

David Boudreau and his son Samuel, 21, have each received a bone marrow transplant.

At just a year and half, Samuel was diagnosed withFanconianemia, a disease that mainly affects the bone marrow and decreasesthe productionof blood cells.

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"Eventually, his bone marrow would've failed," said David, who felt an overwhelming feeling of shock when he heard the news in a hospital room.

Over time, Samuel gotsicker and was in desperate need of bone marrow.

Aftera few tests, doctors discovered his older brother, Sylvain, who was three at the time, was the perfect match. Typically, siblings have a one in four chance of a match, said David.

Sylvain, now 22, doesn't remember much of the surgery except the large bandageon his back.

Every doctor would explain the bone marrow and I said, 'We don't have to, we already went through this with our son.'-DavidBoudreau, cancer survivor

It was 1998 when the family headed tothe Hospital for Sick Children in Toronto for Samuel's major surgery.

"It was a good day," said Samuel, who now works at a pharmacy in his hometown of Bouctouche.

"Now I'm feeling well."

David said he couldn't have been prouder of his eldest son as doctors got towork.

"They went in like 20 times with a needle when he got out he was pretty wiped," said the 51-year-old.

As a reward, he asked for toy cars and trucks.

"I was promising the world when he woke up."

But after the surgery that saved his life,the uphill battle continued for Samuel, who wasin and out of hospital for the next seven years.

"They almost had a mug on there with our names on it, we were there so much," he said of the hospital stays.

Nightmare continues

The Boudreaufamily had no idea they'd be in for moretwists and turns years down the road.

It was a typical morning in 2010, and David was in the bathroom shaving when he noticed a lump underneath his jaw.

David, then 44 years old and active in hockey and karate, decided to visit a doctor just in case.

After several tests, doctors relayed the news that hehad non-Hodgkin's lymphoma, a cancer that starts in white blood cells,part of the body's immune system.

For years, he had different treatments, but nothing worked.His last shot at survival:a bone marrow transplant.

"Every doctor would explain the bone marrow, and I said, 'We don't have to, we already went through this with our son,' " he said.

"It's a big thing for one family to go through a bone marrow [transplant] but two is insane."

After his name went on the registrylist, the father of threeknew he only had a 50 per cent chance of getting a match.

He waited for a month and a half, calling several times for updates hoping for good news.

You don't know who it is. You don't know who you're helping.-CorySandstra, bone marrow donor

Finally, he got word of a match, and the bone marrow transplantwas done inHalifax in March 2016.

A donor in Edmonton saved his life.

"I knew it was life or death," David said. "Either I find a match or I was done."

A year after the surgery, David reached out to the mystery donor he now knows as CorySandstra.

"At first it took me half an hour pacing in the house," said David, who is still recovering from the surgery.

"I told him, 'I'm not sure if I should call you brother, angel or both.' He said, 'Cory will do.' "

Getting the call

When he received David's phone call, Sandstradescribed the conversation as overwhelming and emotional.

"The more I've been able to get to know whoDavid is and the stuff his family has been through, it made it worth every minute of what I did," said Sandstra, trying to hold back tears.

Sandstrawas in Grade 11 when he decided to donatehis bone marrow. He wasencouraged by a classmate to add his name to the registry.

Nearly 20 years later, his marrow matched a patient in need.

"You don't know what to expect that's the unique thing ofan unrelated donation," said the 35-year-old, whose grandmother's sister also died from leukemia.

"You don't know who it is. You don't know who you're helping."

For the past few months, the newfound friends have been communicating through text messaging. They'rehoping to meet in person someday, talk about hockey and their mutual love for the Montreal Canadiens.

"He saved my life," David said.

A need for donors

In the meantime, both David and Samuel Boudreau want to draw attention to the need for more bone marrow donors.

"We need more names on the registry," David said. "Sometimes that's the only way to get cured."

The cancer survivor is encouraging people to visitonematch.ca and sign up. Akit with instructions will arrive in the mail. If there's a match, donors will be contacted, and it could take years.

"One day it could happen to your family," David said. "With us it saved two lives."