'He really took the time to listen,' grieving mom says of youth mental health expert

A grieving couple in North Sydney, N.S., is grateful for the support of the community and from an expert in adolescent mental health the province sent to Cape Bretonin the wake of their child's suicide.

Madison Wilson, 13, took her own lifeearlier this month.Her father,Chris Royal, said she was bullied in school and on the social media siteSnapchat.Her mother, AmylynnWilson, said she's still"trying to process" everything that's happened.

Two other middle school children in Sydney also took their own livesin the last six months.

In response, the province dispatched officials from the departments of Health and Education to the island, along with expert Dr. Stan Kutcher. They arrived onMondayto investigate and will make recommendations to the government about how to improve mental-health supports for youth on Cape Breton.

'He really took the time to listen'

Kutcher attended a public meeting last night in North Sydney and met with teachers and several parents, including Wilson and Royal.

"He really took the time to listen," said Wilson."He let us talk and explain some things and it was really nice to have someone just say, 'Here, talk.'"

Kutchersaid it was a privilegeto meet with parents.

"They have shared their stories. They have helped us understand what they have been living through and they have come up with a number of ideas and suggestions for us," he said.

Kutchersaid he wouldn't reveal what those suggestions were as it was prematureand he thought more ideas would come out of the coming meetings.

'It's really hard for a kid'

Kutchersaid children often need help to balance their need for social interaction with the negativity of social media.

"There is an off button. It's easy for me or for you to say, 'Push the off button.'It's easy. It's really hard for the kid," he said.

"The dilemma that we get into with the social media isone of the developmental components of adolescence is to learn how to navigate the complexities of the social world ... and it is very complex. The other component of thatis the desire to develop strong and intense peer relationships."

A second public meeting will be held Tuesday nightat the Grand Lake Fire Hall in Sydney.

Wilson and Royal have also invited people to attend a balloon release in Sydney Mines tonightto remember their daughter and to send positive messages out to other children in the community.

If you are in distress or considering suicide, there are places to turn for support, including your doctor or Nova Scotia's Mental Health Mobile Crisis Team at (902) 429-8167. TheCanadian Association for Suicide Preventionalso hasinformation about where to find help.