How builders, city planners are trying to create more family-friendly Toronto condos

The Goodtimes hope they'll be able to live in their Queen West condo forever, but even they admit squeezing their life into a 730-square-foot space is not without its problems.

The biggest issue for the artist couple with two young children is "the stuff," LindsayGoodtimestold CBC Toronto.

"Everyone has more stuff, so you have to get the reins on all the stuff," she said. The other challenge is finding enough living and playing space.

"I think it's important to try and better utilize the space outdoors for the community.It's about finding space and grass that you can use for your backyard," saidGoodtimes. Negotiating dog and children's play spacescan also get difficult.

With the average price of a detached home in Toronto well above the $1-million mark, the housing dreams of families like the Goodtimes wanting to live in the city have undergone a radical shift in the last 10 yearsposing a challenge that developers and city planners are only just beginning to tackle.

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Condo dwellers used to be a pretty equal mix of first-time buyers and empty-nesters, but manypeople are now choosing to stayin condos, says Mimi Ng, vice-president of sales and marketing at MenkesDevelopments Inc.

"You're not considered a have-notif you live in a condo these days," saidNg, who says more and more residents are what she calls "move-out" buyers people who are moving from one condoto another.

Buildings thatwere originally designed to accommodate a more mature, adult lifestyle are now being forced to change as those young adults are starting to have families.

"Today, everyone is living in condos and it's a lifestyle shift, not just for financial reasons ... People love living an urban lifestyle,"said JaredMenkes, VP ofhighriseresidential atMenkes.

Menkes, who isthe third generation toworkfor the family's development company, sayssince their start in the 1950's, they've built "50,000condos and millions of square feet" of living space.

Heis embracing the idea of kids living in condosby designing kids rooms at the planning stagea growing trend among all developers.

"You have a checklist when you build a condo; a theatre, a gym, a boardroom and we said, 'Why don't we have a kids room?'" said Menkes. "We're living vertically now and people are living vertically all over the world,so how do you allow those people to live an easy lifestyle?"

Menkes, who himself started his family in a condo, says the most difficult part of having families in condos is creating a vertical community, or as he puts it a "front porch." One solution has been to introducerecreation coordinators who put on parties, kids shows, movie nights and yoga classes, allowing people living in the building to interact.

Menkes and team members travelled all over the world to get inspiration. He recalls visiting Hong Kong in 2013, where every building he visited had a kids room. He wants to apply those lessons to Toronto and its growing condo culture.

"The city is realizing we're becoming a world class city," he said. "You look at cities all over the world in Asia, Europe and South America and people are living vertically."

'Growing Up' in Toronto

The city of Toronto has also been studying family living in highrises.

In "Growing Up: Planning for Children in New Vertical Communities," the planning department is looking at how multi-unit housing in high-density communities can better accommodate households with children.

According to city data, 32 per cent of households with children lived in mid and highrise buildings in 2011.

"We want to ensure that we're not just building buildings, but that we're actually creating wonderful places to raise families in vertical communities," said Jennifer Keesmaat, the city's chief planner.

The study is looking at the design of units, buildings and neighbourhoodsto "ensure all three components will be great for family life," she said.

Perhaps not surprisingly for parents, stroller parking has been a big issue, the city has heard.

"You can't leave it in the hallway, not on the balcony so lots of families have improvised and put the stroller in the bathtub, for example," said Keesmaat.

The chief planner added that many condos are embracing the ideas of familiesand she's even seen condos with craft rooms. Some developers are compensating "for the fact that people are living in a small personal space."

Like Menkes, the city looked at case studies in other municipalities and countries around the world, including France, Sweden, England and New York City.The "Growing Up" study staff report and recommendations are due to be released in the coming days.

Embracing vertical living

Meantime, the Goodtimes family is embracing vertical and small-space living.

The family has constructed a small room intheir one-bedroom condo for their two daughters. And Lindsay Goodtimes says making it work is all about compromise.

"If you're going to live in a condo, you have to have a little give and take. Yes, kids are going to make noise;yes, people are going to throw parties if you have to live in such tight quarters, you have to give a little," addedGoodtimes.

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