No one exactly knows whats going on between Jennifer Lopez and Drake these days (how many fireside cuddle sessions does it take to make it official?), but at least now we have some insight into why the singer seems to be attracted to men of the younger variety. (Sidenote: like she needed a reason to be into this .)

Speaking with W magazine for their March 2017 issue , Lopez shared that theres something about younger guys that appeals to her as a 47-year-old pop diva/legend/actress/national treasure.

Men in their 20s are very confident and cocky, and women are super insecure, she said. And then it flips: Men get super insecure, and women get comfortable in their own skin, in a way that makes them more beautiful.