Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce s romance was written in the stars or at least in Glamour magazine.

One observant fan spotted as much this week after flipping through a 2009 issue featuring Swift on the cover. In the Glamour article, the singer-songwriter described her ideal partner. Swifties were stunned when those words seemed to perfectly match the man shes dating today.

I think its more a question of confidence, Swift, 19 at the time, told Glamour .

I wouldnt want to be with a pushover who would let me make all the plans and have all the control, she continued. Its really natural for me to go into planning mode, but Id rather be with someone who has his own voice and passion and ambition.

Kelce, a tight end for the Kansas City Chiefs , is arguably the farthest thing from a pushover, since his job involves regularly blocking tackles for his quarterback. As for having his own voice well, Kelce does host a weekly podcast with his brother.

Swift also said in the Glamour interview that it can put strain on a romantic relationship when one person is a professional entertainer and the other isnt. After interviews all day and being on stage every night, Swift told the magazine, she can only give someone whats left.

Its always going to be long-distance, even if I date the boy who lives next door to me in Nashville, she added. Ill be flying to see him and flying him places to see me. It feels like it would involve more scheduling, and I already deal with a lot of scheduling in my life.